Thanks. I'll give it a go.
I have changed the power options in the control panel as per "http://www.fixedbyvonnie.com/2013/11/windows-8-1-wont-sleep/#.UuWdcrTn-Os"
A first step as it were. Will try and see how it works. Its happy hour now and " She who must be obeyed will be demanding some wine"
Cheers and thanks